A Challenging Season in the World
This month has felt especially heavy. National and international politics are in disarray; the headlines tell of school shootings, a teen suicide linked to AI, and endless images of violence replaying across social media. And while I love writing, I don’t love pretending I have neat advice for people’s very specific, very personal reactions to such overwhelming events. Like I’ve said before, people’s feelings and needs deserve space, not sound bites.
The Therapeutic Effects of Fall
What I can talk about is the therapeutic effects of fall, the season that ushers in the holidays and invites opportunities to ground ourselves in community and connection.
There’s something about this season that feels like a soothing balm. There is a shift in the air, the changing colors, the comforting foods, and the familiar rhythms that return each year. Fall carries a kind of continuity we can lean into when so much else feels uncertain.
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Holding Complexity During the Holidays
As the holidays approach, the fall season invites us to slow down, gather with others, cherish connections, and pause for deep, cleansing breaths. It nudges us toward volunteering and supporting our communities in ways rooted in compassion for one another.
Of course, it’s not as if everything suddenly becomes rosy in the fall. Many of us are still managing financial stress, holding onto boundaries, or working to maintain the hard-won differentiation that family dynamics can so easily blur. Some are grieving new losses, while others are carrying the tender weight of remembering loved ones they miss most.
And yet, fall offers something steady. The return of rituals, pulling on sweaters, sipping warm drinks, watching favorite movies, and gathering for holiday meals. The season reminds us that life moves in cycles. Even as the trees let go of their leaves and the nights grow long, there is still life at the root, and renewal will come.
When we slow down, we are invited to remember what truly matters. The same way the trees release what they no longer need, we, too, can create space to hold onto what grounds us most deeply.
If we take our lead from these transitions and hold fast to the basics—love, mercy, justice, forgiveness, and service—then what we create in this next phase, in our lives, our relationships, and even in our country, can be the peace and grounding connections we all cherish at our center.
Space for Grief and Comfort
We don’t have to pretend this time of year is only joyful. It’s complex. It holds grief and comfort at the same table. But maybe that’s exactly why we need it, because it makes space for all of it. Fall is a time we’re allowed to just be. There’s no obligation to feel grateful or cozy. We don’t owe anyone a cheerful face, though it’s easy for me to smile with a warm mug of spiced cider or eggnog in my hands.
Practical Ways to Care for Yourself
Still, there are concrete ways I suggest caring for yourself in this season:
- Be mindful. Notice one small thing today that feels steady: a tree still standing, a favorite mug, the sound of rain, or the weight of a blanket. Let that be enough. This isn’t about forcing gratitude; it’s about finding one anchor when everything else is spinning.
- Protect your peace. About those family gatherings: you can love someone and still limit your exposure to them. You can show up and still protect your peace. These aren’t contradictions. They’re acts of self-respect.
Finding Therapy in the Season
So if you find yourself tired, grieving, or bracing for what’s ahead, notice the therapy that the fall season offers: crisp air, changing leaves, and the weight of a blanket. In these small things, there is continuity and connection—even in a single breath.
You get to decide what this season means to you. Keep what serves you, and release what doesn’t. That’s not selfish; it’s necessary.
And sometimes, that’s enough.
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